I also want to be told I am wrong. I want to be challenged, and questioned! It might hurt in the moment, but guess what, I will get over it. I will sleep on it. I will talk to my most trusted circle about it. That is healthy discourse. I will come back and realize that learning WITH is exactly what just happened. A light bulb just went off, we learn collaboratively, just like we ask of our students! Share, listen, think, talk, repeat!
Communication is so key.
I don't really get involved in the title discussion, because the title is the least important part. People know who you are by how you act.